COME AND GET YOUR LOVE!!!
THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is about falling madly, passionately, deeply in love with yourself. Recognizing you're enough. Realizing you're worthy. Seeing yourself as capable of self-direction and managing your own life. Believing in your own goodness, really believing in it. These awarenesses make healing of every kind possible, and they open the door to happiness beyond your wildest expectations. The overriding mission of THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is to provide the profound, life-changing opportunity to see yourself in this uplifted way, but fair warning. Once your mind is opened with these radiant ideas, it can never be closed. Your new awareness is irrevocable.
Press the restart button on your own life by giving yourself a mega dose of self love. Self-Love is the answer to every problem, whether it's a dependency, a health condition, a loss of some kind, betrayal or trauma. Self-love guarantees your situation will improve. And here's the really good news. Self-love is just a skill, or more accurately. a skill set that anyone can learn. Even you.
Here's the deal. The absence of self-love isn’t a character flaw. It isn’t a personality dysfunction. It isn’t a genetic defect, and it isn’t mommy or daddy’s fault, either. Rather, the absence of self-love has to do with a serious misperception about what it means to be a loving being and a lack of the most basic skills for dealing with disappointments and frustrations. It takes zero awareness and no skill to be loving under perfect, amiable conditions when things go your way and when the people in your world do what you want them to do. Conversely, it takes a new mindset and a a new skill set to be love "under fire," when things don't go your way. Get it all here!
There are four life-changing goals of THE LOVE EXPERIENCE
GOAL #1: Get a new understanding of what it means to be a loving being and how to use this understanding to make life decisions and conduct yourself. Because "being love" is vague terminology that means different things to different people, we come to a new, stripped down definition that gives clear, actionable and strategic self-direction. Your new awareness of love will change your life in profound and subtle ways.
GOAL #2: Rediscover your own goodness, your own worth and learn how to honor yourself by taking the time to ALWAYS know what you want. You matter. Your life matters. And what you want matters! Knowing what you want is a basic, essential act of power, and every little kid knows how do do it. As adults, we've forgotten all about it, and we make what other people want more important.
Knowing what you want is an act of power. Ignoring what you want is an act of dis-empowerment. Honoring what you want is an demonstration of worthiness. Ignoring what you want is a demonstration of unworthiness. Without uttering a word, it screams "I don't matter." The more you sacrifice your own desire, the less you see your own worthiness and the less you matter to yourself. Lets fix this! Learn a simple, sure way to cut through the confusion, to access your power, and to ALWAYS know what you want.
GOAL #3: Acquire seven simple skills for being love under fire. It's easy to be loving when things go your way and when people are nice. It takes intention and skill to be love when people cross you, are mean, exclude you or anything else. The reason for being love under fire is because this is where you learn who you are. This is where you develop unshakeable self-love. This is the exact place where the work is done. Trips to the dark-side to get what you want make you scare yourself and make you not like yourself. That's the price, and it's not worth it.
Being love under fire doesn’t mean being a woosie or letting people walk all over you. It doesn’t mean you have to leave your problems unsolved or put up with intolerable, unfair conditions. Being love under fire means taking the time to know what you want and learning how to get it without going to the dark-side. We’re all deeply, intimately familiar with the ease of going to the dark-side to force others to do our bidding and to be more pleasing. Hissy fits, guilt trips, meanness and other dark-side tricks usually work and they work fast. Obviously, this is why it’s so very hard to consider putting them down.
That said, your escape from the dark-side is your doorway to a sane, calm, self-love filled life. Turmoil and tension lead to constant underlying low-grade anxiety, bad feelings and a predisposition to every disease you don't want. Trips to the dark-side prevent you from healing, and they prevent you from loving yourself. Of course, you can continue to live on the dark-side and pretend it doesn’t matter. But there’s a better way. I promise.
So this is where we meet, in the heart of your darkness and mine, with compassion to self, acceptance of self, and with the full understanding that self is doing the best it can, under what may be incredibly difficult circumstances. You have a tiny willingness, my friend, and you have a tiny openness. It’s enough to take you home to your own big beautiful heart.
GOAL #4. An enjoyable, nurturing love-based day. Experience the direct, open, reciprocal sharing of the love that is your truth with others in attendance.
THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is radical, revolutionary counter cultural training.
It's your first step out of the matrix.
Counter cultural means it's opposite to conditioning and indoctrination received from family, religious, business and educational sources. The message of the LOVE EXPERIENCE is radically different than the constant messaging from books, movies and social media. Even more, few highly educated and respected professionals fully understand what it means to "be love" in an uncompromising way. The lack of worldly understanding is sometimes perceived as difficult.
Another challenge is the fact that the practice of "being love" is subtle. Subtle means it isn’t noticed, valued or appreciated by others. No one sees the conscious, deliberate work you’re doing. No one gives you "points" for being wise or good. Few have a basic understanding of love and even fewer recognize love when they see it. It’s not your job to teach or correct others, but it’s essential to understand you’ll be operating at a different vibe on a higher level than other folks, So, as you can see, the choice to be a wholly loving being is often a solo, self-directed path, and this can be perceived as difficult, too.
None of this has to matter. You can be in this world without being of it. You can love yourself without explanation to others, without approval of others, without the support of others.
ARE YOU READY…..
...To awaken your passion to be a more loving being? To be guided by love; to live in love; to solve problems in love? Then consider THE LOVE EXPERIENCE.
...To feel really good about yourself, and I mean really good? Without being haunted or daunted by past mistakes and lack of past awareness? Then consider THE LOVE EXPERIENCE.
...To spend a day devoted to you; your enrichment; your happiness; your honor to self and your gratitude to self? Then consider THE LOVE EXPERIENCE.
The love you rediscover in your own heart will set your heart on fire.
WHAT TO EXPECT AND NOT EXPECT
THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is a combination of lecture, lively interactive group discussion and individual exercises. While personal sharing is encouraged, this is not a support group forum where we share our sad stories. Little emphasis is placed on analyzing, understanding or commiserating about the past. Our focus is on how to handle the present moment when disappointment is experienced or when someone crosses you.
THIS IS A ONE-OF-A-KIND, REVOLUTIONARY EXPERIENCE. If it calls to you, please come.
Karen Bentley
PS. If you happen to know Oprah, please ask her to call me.
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But love must be extended and experienced in a harmless way to have a healing or transformational effect. That's the one and only rule about love.
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