Come and get your love!

THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is about having more love, giving more love, and being the loving solution for problem's in your realm.   It's about directly E X P E R I E N C I N G self as a wholly loving. grace-filled being by re-discovering, extracting and extending the vast reservoir of love that's already deep inside your heart, but that's been contracted, dormant and forgotten.  

Is your heart shut down?  How do you know?  It results in severe emotional pain, discord, anxiety, lack and suffering.  Ugh.  Who wants that kind of torment?  No wonder so many are prone to reaching for a substance or relying on an unwanted behavior.  That's the hard way.  There's an easier one.  

THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is an easier way.  It's your handy escape route.   It sets the stage for the removal of every blockage keeping you stuck and it frees you to magnitize more of every kind of goodness you deserve.  

The goal of THE LOVE EXPERiENCE

The cornerstone of THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is the thoughtful re-consideration of what it means to be a wholly loving being.  If love is the answer to every problem, how do you put love into action in your life in a practical, no nonsense way.  If love makes miracles possible, how do you get a miracle for yourself?  Do you have to hug more?  Be more supportive?  Say endearing things?  Always be on hand to do for others?  Pray more?  Give gifts?  Somehow make up for every mistake?  What's the deal with love? 

Bottom line:  There's no common agreement about what it means to be a loving being.  Experts don't agree.  Psychologists don't agree.  Theologians don't agree either.  In fact, every person  (all 8 billion of us) has a different expectation about love.  This makes it all exceedingly difficult, doesn't it?  The only way to get around this quaqmire is to think about love in terms of the lowest common denominator, which is this:  love is always and only harmless.  

When you consistently make the most harmless decision, you'll be making a loving decision that enables you to feel good about yourself, and feeling good about yourself is where it's at.  

Here's the rub.  

THE LOVE EXPERIENCE is counter cultural training to be harmless.  

Counter cultural means that it's opposite to conditioning and indoctrination received from family, religious and educational sources.  This conditioning has been continuously received since infancy!  Likewise, harmlessness is radically different than the constant messaging from books, movies and social media. Even more, few highly educated and respected professionals fully understand what it means to live in a harmless way.  The lack of worldly understanding makes the path of harmlessness radically different, and this is often perceived as difficult.  Standing alone and going solo is just one of the hard parts about the choice to be harmless.  There are two others.   

Another challenge is that harmlessness is sometimes viewed as being a woosie and letting people walk all over you.  This of course is not true, but a new tool kit and a new skill set is needed to get your own sweet way without going to the darkside.  And lastly, the practice of harmlessness is extremely subtle.  Subtle means it's not noticed.  Few people acknowledge the hard, conscious work being done.   There are no "points" deposited your bank for being wise or good.  So, as you can see, the choice to be harmless seems like a simple path, but it isn't.  

Harmlessness is your way out of the Matrix

The belief in harm as a way to solve problems, a way to get rid of problems, a way to avoid problems or a way to make the world a better place is the belief in the Matrix.  The Matrix is the potent invisible world that keeps you stuck in the same predictable rut, maybe for hundreds of lifetimes.  

When you're ready to break free of the Matrix and all the practices that pass for love but aren't, consider THE LOVE EXPERIENCE.

When you're ready to learn new ways to get what you want without acting out, being angry, having hissy fits, giving up, telling someone off, carrying a grudge, engaging in guilt and/or guilt trips, making bargains, self-medicating or any other harmful practice that might seem okay at the time, consider THE LOVE EXPERIENCE.

When you're sick and tired of being sick and tired, consider THE LOVE EXPERIENCE.  The love you re-discover in your own heart will set you on fire.  

Look at the alarming statistics in the anger charts provided below

52% of men are angry.  48% of women are angry. 

White people are angrier than people of color.  

The people with the highest level of education are the most angry.

The people who live in urban centers are the most angry.

Working people are more angry than those who don't work.

People in partnership are angrier than those going solo.

Huh?  What's going on here?  What happens when every single angry person feels justified expressing it?  

Let's consider the common, popular tactic of using anger to get relief from tension, to express so-called truth, and/or to get what's wanted from the people in your world.  Sure, you might feel justified.  Yes, there's a high probability it's going to work.  Yup, it's easy.  Sure, it's handy.  In fact, the convenience of a quick, easy peasy fix is the big problem with indulging anger.  

Unfortunately, however, the expression of anger comes with baggage.  It's a quick trip to the darkside.  it sets you up for guilt.  it invites more back atcha behaviors. It breeds anxiety.  It creates more tension.  It changes your personality, brings you down, makes you crazy.  It might destroy an important relationship.  Is this really what's wanted?  

Unfortunately, we Earthlings are stuck with angry feelings.  They come to us all, and there's no judgment about having them.  The question to be answered is what to do with angry feelings. There are four options:  express them, repress them, channel them into corrective action, or a change of mind about the angry thought.  THE LOVE EXPERIENCE helps you navigate to a change of mind or to corrective action.  

WE'RE A SCARED, SCARY NATION OF ANGRY PEOPLE, but you don't have to be one of them! 

You get a new mindset

You get 7 tools for harmlessly dealing with problems

You get a chance to discuss and practice using these tools

You get to meet and interact with like-minded beings who are eager to connect with you.

There's another way, a better way.  I promise.  Think about it.  

Can't wait to meet you here at Friendship Farm.  

Until then, big love atcha,

Karen Bentley

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